The Original Five Terms and the WOW bonus
Fine
When a submissive says “Fine,” she is signaling compliance with her Dominant’s decision despite underlying discontent. In a D/s dynamic, “Fine” should prompt the Dominant to delve deeper into the sub’s emotions. The Dominant should explore her true feelings gently to maintain trust and understanding in the relationship.
Nothing
A submissive using “Nothing” is often hiding something that bothers her. It suggests that she is not ready to discuss her feelings yet. Recognize “Nothing” as a flag that there are unresolved feelings needing gentle coaxing. Encourage open communication without pressuring her, showing empathy and patience.
Go Ahead
“Go Ahead” from a submissive is a sarcastic dare rather than genuine permission. Treat “Go Ahead” as a clear sign to pause and reconsider your actions. Pause and reassess the situation, seeking her true input to avoid causing discomfort or dissatisfaction.
Whatever
When a submissive uses “Whatever,” she is expressing frustration or resignation. “Whatever” means she’s feeling dismissed. Address her concerns sincerely and validate her feelings.
That’s Okay
This term means the submissive is not truly okay and is planning to address the issue later. Take “That’s Okay” as a cue to revisit the topic and ensure her feelings are resolved. Revisit the topic calmly to ensure her concerns are resolved and she feels heard.
WOW
A sarcastic “WOW” from a submissive indicates disbelief or disappointment. A sarcastic “WOW” is a strong signal of her disappointment. It’s time for a candid discussion. Initiate a candid discussion to clarify and address her feelings.
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